From Survival to Self-Love: Lisa’s Origin Story

Lisa Grace • June 2, 2025

Where Lisa started

In a world where many strive to meet the expectations of others, Lisa Grace's journey of self-discovery offers a refreshing perspective on personal growth. As a mother of three and a successful real estate agent, Lisa realized that despite her achievements, she had lost touch with her true self. This is where  my transformation starts. A journey to joyful living that I didn’t know I was taking. Not because I didn’t need it, but because I didn’t know it was accessible and how to get there.


Understanding the Journey 

Lisa's journey began in Idaho, where she dedicated her life to her family, marrying young and raising her children. For years, her identity was intertwined with those around her, leading to a lack of self-awareness. "I didn't know me," she reflects, sharing how she often adopted the interests of others, much like Julia Roberts' character in the movie "Runaway Bride."


The Turning Point 

After more than a decade in real estate, Lisa achieved financial success, earning up to a million dollars a year. However, she realized that external achievements did not equate to internal happiness. "I had happiness and there were happy things...but when it came down to it, happiness and joy were really the exception," she admits. This realization became a catalyst for change when Lisa found herself divorced at 44, prompting her to confront long-buried emotions and patterns of behavior that had shaped her life.


The Emotional American Ninja Warrior 

Lisa describes her self-discovery process as an "emotional American Ninja Warrior," where she faced her fears and insecurities head-on. Through introspection, she unearthed the behaviors that had once served her but were no longer beneficial. "I was surviving, not living," she shares, emphasizing the importance of recognizing harmful patterns to foster true joy and fulfillment.


Planning for Transformation 

Recognizing the need for a significant change, Lisa set a bold goal: to travel to Italy for an entire month to celebrate her newfound self-love. "I didn't know when...but I made it possible" she states, demonstrating the power of intention and planning. With careful preparation, she ensured her responsibilities were managed while she embarked on this life-changing journey.


Embracing New Experiences 

Lisa's trip to Italy symbolizes more than just a vacation; it's a quest to discover what she truly loves and gives her time to get to know herself. "I want to learn to love and know myself even better."


Helping Others Transform 

Lisa's ultimate goal is to guide others on their own paths to self-love and transformation. She acknowledges the common struggle of feeling trapped and the misconception that significant life changes are necessary for growth. "You can be happy no matter what your external circumstances," she reassures, offering hope and practical advice for those seeking to break free from their patterns and live the life they have been yearning for.


Lisa's journey illustrates the importance of self-awareness and the courage it takes to confront one's true self. Through her experiences, she emphasizes that self-love is not just about external achievements but about understanding and embracing who you are. 


Key takeaways from Lisa's journey include:

  • Recognize and confront harmful patterns in your life.
  • Set bold intentions for personal transformation.
  • Explore new experiences that align with your true self.
  • Understand that happiness can exist regardless of external circumstances. 

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