From Broken to Becoming: Mari’s Brave Step Toward Healing
The Struggle with Confidence
Mari opens up about her past, describing a time when she was bold and confident, unafraid to pursue her goals. "I used to have confidence. I used to be outspoken, bold, not caring, just doing me," she shares. However, life has thrown hurdles in her path, leading to feelings of unworthiness and self-doubt. She expresses a desire to return to her former self, the go-getter who never let anything stand in her way.
The Weight of Stagnation
Despite her aspirations, Mari finds herself stuck, often spending weekends in bed, overwhelmed by the tasks she wants to tackle. "I keep getting in my head thinking I don't deserve it," she admits, highlighting the mental barriers that hold her back. This cycle of self-doubt prevents her from engaging in activities that once brought her joy and fulfillment.
The Importance of Self-Love
When asked how she defines self-love, Mari struggles to find an answer. "I get my nails done, I get my hair done. So that's what I do for myself," she says, indicating that her self-care routine lacks depth. This realization prompts a discussion on the need to confront the parts of ourselves we often avoid, particularly the 'broken' aspects that require healing.
The Role of Journaling
Mari shares her experience with therapy and journaling, mentioning that she started writing five years ago as a way to process her emotions. "I thought I have grown, I thought I've evolved some, but I'm still wanting the same things," she reflects. This honesty underscores the importance of continuing the work of self-discovery and not shying away from the difficult emotions that arise when you are working on lasting change.
Facing the Future with Courage
As the conversation progresses, Mari acknowledges her readiness for change, despite feelings of fear and uncertainty. "I know there's more for me. I want to... I'm capable," she states, emphasizing her desire to build her business and care for her family without the weight of guilt. The discussion shifts to the importance of staying committed to the process of change, even when it feels uncomfortable.
Mari’s journey is a testament to the power of self-reflection and the courage it takes to confront personal challenges. As she embraces the discomfort of change and commits to her healing process, she is poised to rediscover her confidence and pursue her dreams.
Key takeaways:
The role of vulnerability in fostering growth, and the necessity of staying committed to one’s journey, no matter how daunting it may seem.
